01 / USE IT WELL
Use evidence from their profile
A specific observation separates the message from mass greetings and gives the other person something comfortable to answer.
02 / USE IT WELL
Keep the emotional volume appropriate
Interest is enough for a first message. Avoid pet names, sexual comments or declarations that assume intimacy before conversation exists.
03 / USE IT WELL
One thoughtful message is sufficient
If there is no response, do not send repeated prompts. Attention and consent remain voluntary even when your opening was considerate.