01 / USE IT WELL
Effort should become mutual
You do not need identical message lengths, but both people should create movement, ask questions and make space for a next step.
02 / USE IT WELL
Availability eventually becomes observable
Busy lives are real. Repeated vagueness without an alternative plan indicates that the connection may not be practically available.
03 / USE IT WELL
Pressure is not progress
Rapid intimacy, demands or financial conversation should not be interpreted as evidence that the relationship is moving successfully.