01 / USE IT WELL
Clarity is kinder than ambiguity
Avoid suggesting friendship, bad timing or a future possibility unless you genuinely mean it. A clean answer lets both people redirect attention.
02 / USE IT WELL
Do not debate attraction
The recipient may ask for reasons, but you are not required to provide an assessment of their appearance or personality.
03 / USE IT WELL
Safety changes the etiquette
After harassment, coercion or threats, block and report rather than prioritising a graceful explanation.